America’s Best & Worst Cities for Dating

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Hooking that hottie is hard enough without the odds stacked against you, so the city researchers at Sperling’s BestPlaces have identified for you "America’s Best and Worst Cities for Dating."

The study is based on criteria that includes percentage of singles ages 18-24, population density, and dating venues per capita such as concerts, coffee shops, bars, bowling alleys, etc., and includes 80 metro areas in America. They teamed up with AXE Deodorant Bodyspray, which specializes in the dating game, to find out which city is revered as the D.C. (Dating Capital) of the U.S.


Land of the Longhorn

Yee haw! Austin, Texas, tops the list of best cities to play the dating game. Is the city you call home the place to find that special someone?

Best Cities for Dating

Austin, TX
Colorado Springs, CO
San Diego, CA
Raleigh/Durham, NC
Seattle, WA
Charleston, SC
Norfolk, VA
Ann Arbor, MI
Springfield, MA
Honolulu, HI

Worst Cities for Dating

Kansas City, MO
Wichita, KS
Minneapolis-St. Paul, MN
Detroit, MI
Louisville, KY
Greensboro/Winston-Salem, NC
Atlanta, GA
Pittsburgh, PA
Houston, TX
Charlotte, NC

Check out the complete list of all 80 cities in their study.


Interesting Facts from the Top Ten

“Large cities that everyone associates with socializing, like Los Angeles and Miami, did not rank particularly high, scoring lower in categories like coffee shops per capita and flowers bought as gifts,” said Bert Sperling, president of Sperling’s BestPlaces.

“But cities like Austin (No. 1), Colorado Springs (No. 2) and Ann Arbor (No. 8) were not a complete surprise – they are heavy-populated college towns and it’s easy for young singles to get together.”

Austin, TX: Taking home the grand prize, Austin scores relatively high in everything, from frequency of dating partners to the number of establishments to meet people. Austin also has the highest percentage of 18-24-year-olds and knows how to have fun as they spent more money out socializing than any other area. Austin residents also had the highest expenditures on alcohol purchased away from home.

Colorado Springs, CO: Ranks in the 99th percentile for socializing at bars and also scores high in the dining out category.

San Diego, CA: Scores high in the diversity index, which rates the likelihood of randomly meeting someone of a different race or ethnicity, and, of course, San Diego is off the charts when it comes to outdoor recreational opportunities.

Raleigh Durham, NC: Has a large 18-24-year-old population and a high amount of online daters in the area.

Seattle, WA: No surprise here - Seattle has the largest amount of coffee shops (great places for meeting people or gathering to rehash the previous night’s activities). It also has the highest percentage of online daters.

Charleston, SC: Ranks second in the amount of lingerie shops per capita (behind Columbia, SC).

Norfolk, VA: Came in near the top due to the exceptional amount of flowers that were brought as gifts for a special someone. Online dating was also high, in the 83rd percentile.

Ann Arbor, MI: Scores in the 98th percentile for percentage of singles and ranks high in the dining out category as well.

Springfield, MA: Springfield scores high in many categories, among them are percentage of singles, health clubs per capita and bars per capita in the area.

Honolulu, HI: Honolulu ranks first in the diversity index category, which rates the likelihood of randomly meeting someone of a different race or ethnicity, and scores the highest in the dining out category as well. Honolulu has the lowest number of lingerie shops per capita, probably because no one’s wearing much clothing to begin with.


Better Luck Next Time

Below are some of the reasons that large cities like Detroit, Atlanta and Houston bottomed out in the study.

18-24 Population: Pittsburgh (overall No. 73 ranking) and Detroit (overall No. 77) are among cities with the lowest number of 18-24 year olds.

Percentage of Singles: Charlotte, NC, (overall No. 71) is among the cities with the lowest percentage of singles.

Latte, Anyone?: Wichita (overall No. 79) and Greensboro (overall No. 75) are among those cities that are home to the least number of coffee shops per capita, leaving few good places for young people to converge and trade stories after a fun night out.

Remove Earplugs: Louisville (overall No. 76) scores low in the concert category; apparently the tour buses are not making a habit of stopping and rocking in Louisville.

Necklaces and Bracelets and Rings, Oh My: Two of the cities where jewelry is least often bought as a gift are Detroit (overall No. 77) and Minneapolis (overall No. 78).

Ooo la la!: Houston (overall No. 72) is among cities with the least amount of lingerie shops per capita.

Behind Bars: Atlanta (overall No. 74) is among the cities with the least amount of hot new bars, leaving young singles looking for places to meet potential hook ups.

Reader's Comments

I have live in san diego a long time. Its a zombie place for dating. The women are cold and aloof. Like their shit don't stink. Friendly waitresses are always surprised when friends and I tell them they are not from here. " How do you know" We know.
- mr P

I always figured the Metro Atlanta was a poor place to meet people, but everyone always told me it was just me; "Maybe if you got a haircut, or maybe if you did this, or maybe if you did that." I also find that the women are materialistic and shallow, always judging by appearance, what kind of car you drive, and what you do for a living, as opposed to who you really are and what you have to offer. dr.beat@rocketmail.com
- Joe Page

Seattle's for hippies and faggots. Word...
- Mak

so y is KC, MO the worst place??? & i can c y detroit ain't got many 18-24 yr. olds---- they move out as soon as the can then realize life sucks everywhere and come back
- em

Gotta love Austin, bitches!
- Val

I will attest that it is true that kc, mo sucks for dating. Once you get acquainted with the social scene, you find out that everyone knows everyone and pretty soon you do too. It's like living in a small town. There's not enough variety of types of people and definetly not enough eligible men!!
- Leah

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